Divide participants into small groups of three people numbered 1, 2 and 3.

Two people sit face to face and the third person will observe them separately. One person will play the role of listener, one person will be the speaker and the third person will be observer. It can be played three times so everybody has a turn to be the speaker, listener and observer.

Person I Person II Person III
Round I Speaker Listener Observer
Round II Listener Observer Speaker
Round III Observer Speaker Listener
  • In Round 1, the speaker can share a positive thing.
  • In Round 2, the speaker can talk about one thing which makes him or her angry.
  • For Round 3, the speaker can talk about one thing that makes him or her sad or embarrassed.
  • After each round the observer can briefly describe to the other participants what he/she observed.